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“Margit, I am so pleased with the huge change in Celeste’s attitude since you’ve been working with us. She seems so motivated and happy. She’s so much more calm, positive and thoughtful. You have a way of working with teens that is just so cool. It's like you speak their language, but at the same time are the adult, coaching them towards healthy young adulthood. My heart is singing, Margit! You are worth every penny!” Being a single parent is confusing and tiring. I don't have time to read all the parenting books and I find myself copying what other parents do (the ones I think are good parents). It doesn't really work though. What I love about Margit is that she coaches MY family, not just any family. I don't have to wonder whether the techniques will work because we've worked together to figure out the best ones for us. Also, I always feel better after talking to Margit. She never makes me feel stupid or incompetent. She wants us to be happy as much as we do. She brings optimism and laughter to our family and I feel a lot of hope for my daughter's future and the future of our relationship. When we first met Margit, our daughter refused to work with her. We were disappointed but Margit assured us that we could make progress even if our daughter didn't participate. We're in our 3rd month now. Our daughter doesn't lie anymore, she is more affectionate to us, and she doesn't fight with her sister anymore. Another positive result is that our parenting is more in sync. Even more surprising is that we are stronger as a couple romantically, too. That makes both of us happier parents. We are very satisfied with our coaching. We give Margit our highest recommendation. Three things I love about Margit Crane: Margit, I wasn't sure how I felt while I was filling out the initial survey, but once I spoke with you during my session, my eyes were opened. I noticed a change within a week. When I saw you that same week, you actually said that I looked like a changed person. I feel rejuvenated and the communication lines are open. I appreciate your help tremendously. With Many Thanks, Carole (Parent Phone Consultation, February 2009) My first hour with Margit was more revealing than a year of therapy! I’ve worked with Margit and my high-energy 8-year-old on a couple of occasions, and those have made a big difference for our family. Margit really understands kids and parents. She doesn’t expect us, as parents, to have all the answers, and she will never make you feel bad for finding the work of raising kids to be at times more than you can handle. Instead, she offers careful observation and helpful, concrete tips that you can put to use immediately. In the months since we worked with her last, I have come to rely on the tools she’s provided. They help me keep my cool, and help me give my daughter the consistent structure she needs. It’s much better than the cycle of yelling and guilt that we all felt trapped in before. What is most wonderful about Margit is that my son thinks she’s okay. High praise, indeed, from a 14-year-old who’d really rather be playing baseball, texting his girlfriend or hanging with the guys, instead of driving with mom to visit Margit. And while Tommy doesn’t necessarily fall into either of Margit’s gifted teen or AD/HD specialties, we still benefit from her advice, her expectations of accountability, and her skill at removing the sense of isolation adults often feel while parenting teens. Margit doesn’t hesitate to tell me I’m wrong about something, which earns big points with my son and thus his cooperation. The opposite works as well – thank goodness! Consequently, both of us respect her and are confident she’ll level with us. We trust her. Knowing she is in our court is a huge weight off my shoulders, which frees me up to focus on my business, the rest of my family, and having fun with my son. I so appreciate the care and concern you have given Ren the past 3 months and I also thank you for helping me to see how serious his school situation has been. I credit you with getting me out of the river of "denial" and into action mode. I feel empowered, to make a difference.
I talked to Margit for 50 minutes today to find out how to better support my son who has ADHD and low self-esteem. My husband and I are more and more drained the older he gets. Margit prepared me for the appt by emailing me a questionnaire to fill out. By the time of the appt she had suggestion after suggestion for me. She seemed to understand my son and us even though we've never talked before. She didn't waste any of the time. Every minute was dedicated to my family and I. I recommend calling Margit NOW. I met Margit when my family was shattered. Friends repeatedly suggested that I call but I thought that if I waited, the problems would work themselves out. I wish I had called Margit sooner. We all could have been enjoying instead of resenting each other. I had sent my son to therapy for six months and nothing had changed, so I was apprehensive about our first coaching call but Margit eased my mind almost immediately and I felt so hopeful by the end of the session. During that call, Margit put her finger on all the problems and made suggestions that I could implement that week. Later she coached my son and I together so that we would be on the same page. He thinks she’s great. We get along much better, he feels good about himself, and it’s only been 3 months. Thanks Margit!
How I feel after each session with Margit:
Parent Coaching is the fastest way to effect immediate changes in the way your family interacts. When just one family member starts growing in understanding and confidence, whether quickly or slowly, this uplifts the whole family. You don't need to wait until your child is old enough or cooperative enough to work with me! YOU can be the change you want for your family! Call now to schedule your complimentary 20-minute session. |
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